Establishing a Serious Relationship at a Distance - Is That Achievable?
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Lyudmila
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Lyudmila
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Katysha
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Katerina
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Dating girls from Ukraine seems a very favorable option for establishing a strong and loving family for many men who have grown aware of the inability to find a woman of their dream, with similar life values and plans, in their neighborhood. At first it seems fine, with both of you getting to know each other, developing your relationship, and growing closer. However, a moment comes when you want to be sure that it will last; counter to a common perception that men are more light-minded in a relationship, men are most frequently focused on stability and look for a lifetime partner in a marriage agency. So you are dating a girl and want to establish a serious relationship with her, even before a personal meeting. Many people say it is impossible, but is it? We are trying to find out how a distance relationship may be serious and long-lasting.
- Recent research findings have shown that long-distance relationships are in many ways stronger than relationships between couples living together or close to each other. This is in part explained by emotional closeness between partners - when you cannot hug or touch your beloved woman, you start valuing such simple pleasures as holding her hand, giving her a light kiss, and simply looking into her eyes and seeing her smile.
- Long-distance relationship partners tend to share much more with each other. While living together, people have many household routines that preclude them from normal communication. You and your bride, like many other Ukrainian girls for marriage, have lots of time for communication and getting to know each other better - no matter how bitter it sounds, you actually have nothing else to do before you meet in person! Hence, enjoy this opportunity for finding out more about your beloved woman as a personality, and show yourself in a favorable light.
- Think carefully of why you think you relationships won't work - you may be guided by a widespread American stereotype of relationships, emphasizing the need to be together physically and placing high value on frequent face-to-face contacts. Clearly, a distance relationship contradicts these values, but is this true for girls from Ukraine? Definitely not! Both in Russia and Ukraine, many relationships used to be formed at school or during college, after which young men went to serve 2-3 years in the army, and women waited for them until their completed the service. After that, the couple usually got married, which was considered a very romantic sign of a woman's fidelity. The ability to wait for a beloved man and to be faithful to him is thus an integral part of a Slavic culture, so you should be confident in your woman's seriousness in a long-distance relationship.
And even if you still have doubts about seriousness of your relationships after all these steps - just keep in mind that people possess an ability to make an impact, even when they are absent. This is the sense of a romantic relationship, and if you feel that impact - you are definitely in a strong and stable bond with your Ukrainian girl!
- Recent research findings have shown that long-distance relationships are in many ways stronger than relationships between couples living together or close to each other. This is in part explained by emotional closeness between partners - when you cannot hug or touch your beloved woman, you start valuing such simple pleasures as holding her hand, giving her a light kiss, and simply looking into her eyes and seeing her smile.
- Long-distance relationship partners tend to share much more with each other. While living together, people have many household routines that preclude them from normal communication. You and your bride, like many other Ukrainian girls for marriage, have lots of time for communication and getting to know each other better - no matter how bitter it sounds, you actually have nothing else to do before you meet in person! Hence, enjoy this opportunity for finding out more about your beloved woman as a personality, and show yourself in a favorable light.
- Think carefully of why you think you relationships won't work - you may be guided by a widespread American stereotype of relationships, emphasizing the need to be together physically and placing high value on frequent face-to-face contacts. Clearly, a distance relationship contradicts these values, but is this true for girls from Ukraine? Definitely not! Both in Russia and Ukraine, many relationships used to be formed at school or during college, after which young men went to serve 2-3 years in the army, and women waited for them until their completed the service. After that, the couple usually got married, which was considered a very romantic sign of a woman's fidelity. The ability to wait for a beloved man and to be faithful to him is thus an integral part of a Slavic culture, so you should be confident in your woman's seriousness in a long-distance relationship.
And even if you still have doubts about seriousness of your relationships after all these steps - just keep in mind that people possess an ability to make an impact, even when they are absent. This is the sense of a romantic relationship, and if you feel that impact - you are definitely in a strong and stable bond with your Ukrainian girl!